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Issue # 111 May 12, 2008 | This newsletter is part of a KaleidoSoul Kindred Spirit Member's paid subscription. If you'd like to receive this newsletter every Monday morning, please subscribehere .
| Quotationofthe Week Inspirational words toponder.....
We all take different paths inlife, but no matter where we go, We take a little of each othereverywhere.
---Tim McGraw, Country Singer

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Integratingthe Practice of SoulCollage® into Your DailyLife
 We Are All Connected
I love this Tim McGraw quotation because it so solidlyspeaks the truth. And I loveSoulCollage® because it allows us to take with us a little bit of those we meeton our own journeys. People travel inand out of our lives, this is a fact. Abeloved teacher moves to another state. The mother we love slowly disappears into Alzheimer's. A friend says good-bye. The marriage partner deserts us. A cherished pet dies. How do we let go? Thesame way everyone else lets go. Painfully, with tears and heartache. Perhaps kicking and screaming. Making a SoulCollage® Community card for someone we love but is nolonger with us is one of the best ways I know to not only honor that person, but to soothe our own wounded heart. I learned this firsthand a few months ago when I discovered that an Episcopal priest (Doug) I was close to a few decades ago had died suddenly from brain cancer. We had lost touch over the years, and it truly was shocking to me that he had died. I allowed myself to grieve, and deeply. As I was grieving, and as I was making this SoulCollage card for Doug, I realized that even though our paths had gone in different directions, we truly were still connected. It was a momentous, albeit sad, insight for me.
A few weeks later, when I sat down to allow this card to speak to me, and when I was doing the writing from Doug's "voice," I truly felt that he was right there with me in the room. I didn't have a vision, and it wasn't anything like seeing a ghost. Instead, I felt a deep, visceral and real connection to Doug, a connection that transcended time and space. It was incredibly real and emotional, and it left me with the deepest feeling of peace.
If you are grieving the loss of someone you love, don't let anyone tell you that they are not still with you. Our Community ties transcend separation, even death. It's as simple and as beautiful as that.
Reflection Activity: Create a Community Suit SoulCollage card for someone you love who has died. When you are finished, don't just add the card to your deck and forget about it. Spend at least 15 minutes allowing that person's voice to "speak" to you using the basic SoulCollage card interpretation questions.
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| TheVoice of a Different Kindred Spirit EachWeek
Dot Everhart Lemoyne, PennsylvaniaI was introduced to SoulCollage at the Unitarian Universalists of theCumberlandValley in October, 2006 at an adultreligious education seminar offered by Kathy Ellis, a UU ministerial studentand member of our congregation. She learned about it in a seminary class fromanother student.I was drawn to SoulCollage because I see it as a non-patriarchalexploration and expression of spirituality and dimensions of life. It provided an outlet for creativity andspiritual practice at the same time... and I could use it as a solopractitioner or as a member of a local or virtual group. What I love most is the opportunity to work creatively through intuitionor deliberate design on expressions of my inner and outer lifediscovered/expressed through my assembling found images into a piece ofmeaningful art. SoulCollage is currently nurturing me spiritually and emotionally as Ilive my life out of my own values and care for my life partner of 31+ years,who has dementia and significant short term memory loss. It is connecting me ata meaningful level with a network of SoulCollagers in cyberspace through aYahoo group and with members and friends who come to our local monthly group. I am looking for ways to introduce it to someof my hospice patients and family members... probably not to create a wholedeck, but to create several cards that might be helpful during their time ofillness and grieving. I clip, rip and tear images from every sort of print material that comesinto my house and I boldly ask friends to give me images I find while visitingin their homes or offices. I try to organize my images into folders forcards I think I might make. When I sit down to make a card, I usuallypull an evocative image from my stash and spend some time looking at it andthinking about it and what energy it presents to me. I then sort throughmy stash to see what complementary images might want to mesh with this firstimage. Sometimes the primary or background image lives on a card by itself for awhile until I sense whether that's a card by itself or whether it needsother images to complete it. Sometimes I lay out the card and leave it onthe table or my desk for a few days without gluing it down to see how itfeels. Sometimes, I might put just a bit of rubber cement on the images to"tack" them in place and put the card carefully in a clear envelopeas I do my completed cards. Then I can use it to see if it is complete or in need of otherimages. Once completed, I glue the images together and let it dry for at least aday before putting it back in the envelope. I have not used ModPodge as some folks do. One of our local membershad many of his cards stick together long after they were dried and had beenused for several months; apparently the high humidity in the summertimecaused this, ruining most of them. Maybe if you live in a very dry climateit is okay for you, but I find clear 5 X 8 envelopes from Clear Envelopes, which I havefound to bethe most wonderful way to preserve and protect my cards. They are fairlyinexpensive and the shipping cost is low too. My best advice is to jump right in gathering images and making cards-- nomatter how much you feel you understand or how confused you might feel aboutthe suits or the "rules." Trust your own process and theguidance of your own creativity and the images that present themselves and callto you. Find a group or create your own by sharing SoulCollage with afriend or colleague. Make a commitment to each other to meet regularly--at least once a month for several hours to make cards together and to sharereadings. Tell everyone you can about this medium and trust that theSource will guide you to those who are right for your group as you get started. Join KaleidoSoul and read Anne Marie'swebsite and the SoulCollage website regularly. Join the Yahoo group andpost your cards there and explore what others are doing. I have not yet put backs on my cards to separate them into suits. Since Ihave only about 30 cards, it is relatively easy to sort them into suits for areading. I bought papers I think I might use, but haven't felt a need todo it just yet. I like using all of the same colored mat board and alwaysglue the images on the white side and leave the blue side exposed. I havebeen using a woven box I've had since high school (guess that makes it almostan antique!), to store my cards in-- it's getting full, so I am on the lookoutfor a new "found" box. I like that we are recycling images tomake the cards and always recycle my print materials when I am done with them--first to the local group and then to the recycling crate. I think SoulCollage materials should carry a warning about the addictiveseduction of collecting images and of making cards! On the third day ofmaking cards at the spring KaleidoSoul Retreat, after having almost all of thehours of the day to make cards-- I was still not satiated! I wanted moretime! I wanted more images! I wanted more cards! Doing SoulCollage is akin to being warmed several times if you cut woodto heat your home with it. It warms you when you cut it, it warms youwhen you split and stack it, it warms you when you carry it into the house; andit finally warms you when you put it into the fireplace or wood stove. Ifeel centered and relaxed when I gather or harvest images when sorting throughthe mail or looking through a magazine. I later feel centered and relaxedwhen I trim the edges and isolate the images for filing. And, of course,I feel centered when making the card and when using it in a reading. I haven't gotten into blogging yet, but have a website for my lifecoaching business, Life Compass Coaching. There's no mention of SoulCollage on it,though. I need to work on that!
2 of my favorite SoulCollage cards are:
7th Chakra Butterfly Suit: Companions
I am One who dances joyfully with Shiva at the Crown... with7th chakra energy... arrayed with the beauty of the Monarch Butterfly. Iam One who is energized to navigate miles and miles across the continentspreading beauty everywhere I light and leaving images of royalty and gracewhere I have been. I am One who reaches to the heights I cannot see andcelebrates with joy the intoxicating energy that is mine here where I wear mycrown. I made this card in the wee hours of the morning at the KaleidoSoul Retreat last month. I don't know if you can see, but the stained glass window in the background is made up of butterflies, and I didn't even notice this when I was making this card!
Female Buddha Suit: Council I am the Female Buddha... carved ages ago in China out of everlastingstone to represent the Ageless Loving Mother, holding a growing child,safe upon my lap. S/he reaches out to encounter the world. Oops! somewhere s/he lost that reaching hand: the world can be a dangerousplace; but, oh so fill of treasured riches and lessons learned--sometimes through loss and pain. Chambered nautilus, displayingeverlasting spiral, preserved in prehistoric stone. Petrified woodcreates a tapestryof stone... so rich... so beautiful. I am the FemaleBuddha, from another time still inviting the juxtapposing of thegenders into androgyny... inviting you/me to express your fenale Buddhanature in the world.
The Female Buddha image on this card was in a Smithsonian magazine and thebackground was cut from an issue of Architectural Digest-- an ad for kitchencounters! I'd give my eye teeth to have this counter in MY kitchen! Ihad the background on the card for months before I realized the FemaleBuddha worked perfectly with it! That's how cards are sometimesmade... in stages.
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| Idea of the Week For the backs of my SoulCollage cards I use border strips fromwallpaper. I like this because there are lots of choices. To designate suits I use a coloured dotsystem - sometimes my cards jump around from suit to suit, so I can change them easily when theydecide to move.--- from Kindred SpiritLorraine inBritish Columbia |
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Carl Jungbelieved that our minds come coded with patterns, which lead usto perceive the world in a particular way. He called thesepredispositions archetypes. They are like the DNA of the personality.
The Fool Archetype has some interesting characteristics:Itcontains all aspects of "foolishness" that are possible. For example inthe Fool archetype you find the Sacred Clown,the Comedian, the MysticFool, the Healer Clown like the character Patch Adams. They each containan element of Divine Innocence.
The word Fool comes from theLatin word follis, which means a pair of bellows, which provide theoxygen needed for combustion. The Fool "fires us up" with the impetusfor action when something is finished or goes stale. The Fool persistson the journey, when others might turn back and head for the familiar, orgive up on a relationship instead of continuing to love,because theyjust don't know better . . . and opportunities unfold.
Date: Thursday, May 29, 2008
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New England SoulCollage Facilitator Training- August 8-10, 2008 in western Massachusetts. Thistraining is now full. But you can still check out the pagefor information or to sign up for the waiting list or to be put on the list for the next New England Training.
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| SoulNourishment
Resourcesto support your inner work
as you dive deeper into your beautiful soul
 Books: Unattended Sorrow,by Stephen Levine. Ameditation teacher and writer who is very in touch with the presentmoment, Levine offers a practical, helpful and rich book for anyone whohas ever grieved any kind of a loss. He also talks about howunattended sorrow can accumulate over time and add to our stress whilemucking up our emotions and daily life.
Steering byStarlight, by Martha Beck. FindYour Right Life No Matter What. I'vejust started reading this book and am loving every page. For one thing, the first chapter is called"The End" and the last chapter is called "The Beginning." Beck reconnects us with our authentic hopes,needs and desires by bringing together cutting edge research in psychiatry andneurology. Combining practical exerciseswith funny, touching stories about her clients and friends who have steered bytheir own starlight, this book will entertain you and give you the tools youneed to become your own guide. There's lots of metaphor and imagery involvedtoo, so SoulCollage will make a nice companion to your work with this book.
Jim and Louella's Homemade Heart Fix Remedy, by Bertice Berry. With her characteristic sense of humor and a good dose of motherly wit,Bertice Berry spins the endearing tale of Jim and Louella Johnson, anelderly couple in a southern town who have settled into a marriage thathas long lost its pizzazz. Louella, fed up with her lackluster lovelife, decides to contact her departed ancestors for some advice.Conjuring up her mother, grandmother, and aunt in a dream, she receivesa delightful lesson in the art of reigniting the fires of love. Evenmore startling, the Johnsons discover they can help others rejuvenatetheir passions, heal their hearts, and mend their souls. Written inlanguage that is folksy yet eloquent, Jim and Louella's HomemadeHeart-Fix Remedy is an uplifting and flat-out funny celebration of theconnections between past and present, the importance of family, and thepleasures of the body and the heart.
Feminist FairyTales, by Barbara G. Walker. Theauthor has revamped, retold, and infused with new life some of your favoriteclassic fairy tales. No longer are womensubmissive, helpless creatures in need of redemption through the princely male. Instead they are vibrantly alive, strongwomen who take fate into their own hands. Trust me, there is no book like this anywhere! Here are some of the titles (there are 28 inall): The She-Wolf, Snow Night, Gorga and the Dragon, The Frog Princess, Uglyand the Beast, Jill and the Beanroot, Barbidol, Ala Dean and the WonderfulLamp, Prince Gimme and the Fairy of the Forest, Lily and Rose, Little WhiteRiding Hood, The Littlest Mermaid, How Winter Came to the World, The Empress'sNew Clothes, The Three Little Pinks, Fairy Gold.
The Day I Ate Whatever I Wanted (andOther Small Acts of Liberation), by Elizabeth Berg. This is my favorite fiction author's newestbook, a brilliant set of short stories that all revolve around the themes ofwomen and freedom. I love her workbecause I always recognize myself in her characters. She knows people,particularly women, really well. Ialways have "aha" moments when she describes a feeling or a thought or aplace. And humor abounds here aswell. You can't read this book and notfeel moved in some way.
Movies:Latter Days, featuring Steve Sandvoss, Wes Ramsey, and Jacqueline Bisset. A friend of mine recommended this to me. If you know me, you'll know that I love movie so much that I'll watch anything that is suggested to me, whether I like it or not. This movie, however, totally surprised and amazed me. It is basically a love story between a straight-laced Mormon missionary and another man. The theme of the movie is how we are all connected, which I found quite pertinent as it really relates to the SoulCollage Community suit. There are also several spiritual elements woven throughout this tender and funny love story. Oh, and did I mention the angel?
Websites: SoulCollage Slide Show- Absolutely dazzling, check this out! By SoulCollager Cyn in Colorado.
Grace Works- for those who seek a meaningful life.
Wakeri's Paintings- beautiful paintings to inspire you, and to inspire your deck, from artist Wakeri in Tennessee.
Coaching Toys- spark your imagination, free your spirit.
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Ongoingresources that our Kindred Spirit Membersfind helpful

Inner Surprises Blog:AnneMarie's blog full of an intimate glimpse into her SoulCollage Deck. Soul Songs, YourFr*ee Monthly SoulCollage Newsletter:The May issue is all about The Fool Archetype. You can also read all back issues at the link above. The topics are listed with each issue, so this is an excellent resource for you as well. KaleidoSoul Community Yahoo Group: This is a safe place where you can post your cards (if you want), ask your questions, and virtually "meet"other Kindred Spirits |
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SoulTreasures is brought to you by KaleidoSoul,
Spinning the fragments of your world
into wholeness and beauty
through SoulCollage. SoulCollage cards are made either from one's own art or from images found in materials which have been bought by or given to the SoulCollagecard maker. These collaged cards are used only for the cardmaker's own inner exploration. SoulCollage cards are not sold, traded, bartered, or copied(except as a back-up for the cardmaker's own use) as is stated in the Principlesof SoulCollage®. Where SoulCollage cards are available to be seen by others,
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